Sweet Nothings of Online Dating

Online dating has been approved by many. However it would be safe to gauge on how serious you are about signing up and severing ties with people who you get to meet via these online dating sites. All you have to rely on are photos and maybe some chatting options through messaging or real time chat. But other than that, would you fall and become judgmental as far as deciding to take it serious with this person you met on the web?

Such are common questions surrounding online dating. Some don’t even bother. To most it is a form of desperation to which you can get a partner through the use of a computer from any part of the world. With all these things enumerated, would you even bother wasting your time in online dating sites when you can in fact attend parties and social functions to meet real people in the flesh?

Flirting is what most people think of people who use online dating sites to land a mate. Perhaps it is true. But then again, how good are you at flirting and at evaluating on whether this person is only taking you for a ride?

If you don’t trust online dating sites, don’t waste your time. There are people who bank on fate and faith. If you are not among them, just leave these people alone and have them discover what they are looking for. That is the best way to save some respect for yourself and to the online dating members who approach these sites on a more serious note.

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Say a Little Prayer for the Magnaye Kids

It wasn’t brought to my attention until yesterday on this fire that broke out in Pasig, Manggahan in Manila, Philippines where two kids Matthew and Mary Jo perished in a fire embracing each other as the flames of the burning house practically ate them up. It all happened so fast but what really made me shake my head were their ages, 18 and 4.

Kids have bright futures. But to end it all due to a freak accident wherein the story seemed that they were collateral damage due to an erring neighbor is really something that can devastate me in thought. In fact, they were not even supposed to be in the house. They just waited for their dad to come back after dropping of their mom at a hospital in a span of 20 minutes. That’s all it took to claim the lives of two innocent children with a budding future.

Matthew was only 4 years old while Mary Jo was 18. They were snuck up in their room when a sudden explosion was heard and razed their homes into flames. The explosion? No one ever knew what it was. Many said it was the LPG tank but after the fire was put out, it was still in one piece.

Firemen said it was the television set which overheat. But think of it. How could a television be left open if the kids were snuck up in their room with no one else in the home?

The dad tried to get into the house but the flames were too much. In fact, he suffered severe burns to the body. His glasses even broke, almost hitting his eyes showing how it was impossible to get in and save the kids.

Prior to the fire, the Magnayes already had problems. It was more of a parking dispute where their controversial neighbor placed a written message to their car saying “Get the F—K Out of Here”.

There are no evidences to trace the neighbor to the burning of the house as of to date. But if it was and the intent was to take away property for them to leave the area, the assailant forgot to consider the possibility of people in the house (kids at that!) since it was routine that by 7 AM, no one would be left in the house.

My family would like to extend our condolences to the Magnayes. We will include your kids in our prayers…

Settling Down with Online Dating

So the real world has been rough on you in the world of relationships and romance. Should you give up? Where else can you find a right person that will not bring you down, particularly when they reject you and seem as if it is not a big deal?

There are people who make a good living finding mates online. The cyberworld has a lot of loose ends but along the way you will find that there are a lot of single people who may be searching for the right one as well. Such is the concept of online dating sites which are trying to play cupid and create ties between two people on the Internet, regardless of their location. There have been people who treat it seriously while others see it as a fling thing.

Some people hit it off. Many call it a lame way to find love on the web but today, anything is possible. Online dating has its share of creating Cinderella stories, bringing together people who never thought that they would find true people who would accept them for who they are.

People consider them as geeks and hopelessly romantics. But when people find happiness on the web via online dating, does it matter at all? As long as you hit it off and find the person truly meant for you, everything else does not matter.

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How Do You Deal with a Material Girl?

Admit it. At some point in your life you have come across a woman who is plainly after money or gifts. Some even go as far as hoarding out the cash in you, in an indirect manner of course. Men who fall in love could care less, choosing to accept a woman for what she is and of course to ensure that she is under their wing. But is it worth all the trouble for not being loved at all?

In fact, you may want to think of it when you do run into them. Would you pursue them or simply move on and look for someone better. It is hard to fall in love but it is equally hard to be made a fool. Of the two, the latter seems to be the better option. Why waste your time on someone who doesn’t even show you sincere love?

Everyone needs somebody but materialistic females are certainly something they can do without. Be wiser. Don’t let your heart overrule you. In the end, you heart will be thanking you since such a reality may be to burdensome for people who fail miserably in finding true love in society.

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Don’t Be Deceived by Pictures of Online Dating Profiles

One thing you can only bank on when you sign up with online dating sites is that you can only rely on the information and perhaps pictures of people on their profile. But the question is, is it really them?

For people who want to get attention, their best photo or maybe stealing some pictures from someone online are the usual resort. But that does not mean it is a regular practice. There are actually people who really look good and are really members of these online dating sites.

Online dating sites play with the people’s imagination. Normally, people look at what they want to see and what they feel is a dream that is waiting to be fulfilled. While this is the aim of most dating sites, pairing people and hopefully hitting it off, it just remains that expectations may be set an all-time high but ordinarily, be ready for the worst as perhaps being conned into believing that these people are not really whom they seem to be.

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