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Fine Is Not Good Enough

Oftentimes in our lives we are satisfied with being “fine” or “ok”. Is this what we should be looking for? Is mediocrity going to fill our lives with happiness that we’ve always been yearning for?

All of us have dream guys or dream girls. More often than not, we do cross paths with that person. But when this opportunity comes, most tend to be too shy or too nervous to step up to the plate. This is the opportunity that we should not be passing on.

Somehow, we tend to tell ourselves of how “perfect” that person is. We tell ourselves that this particular person is too good for us. We need to be confident with ourselves. We have to realize that we will be giving our best to that person. And in relationships, it’s not all about who’s on top of the “perfect” list. It’s about the couple who are most willing to compromise, who are most willing to love, and who are most willing to give their whole selves to each other.

We shouldn’t give up on a person whom we know is perfect for us. We should fight for what our minds and hearts tell us. We should stand up for our feelings and thoughts.

In the end, if we pass on our opportunity with that “perfect” guy (or girl), we will always be thinking, “what if?” All your life you would wonder how life would’ve been with that person. How much more wonderful could your life have been or would be?

It’s a matter of being true to your mind and your heart and not settling for “fine”. We should always be looking for “spectacular”, “amazing”, “extraordinary”.