What to Do with Love

There comes a point in every relationship that we are in “limbo”. We aren’t sure whether to stay in a relationship or to move on. When we do let go, it’s still not easy to let go. There is still that part of us that wants our partner back.

Somehow we know that things can’t and most probably will not work out at all. But why does a part of us still believe that there is still a chance? A chance so small but is still worth fighting for?

You see, it is truly our choice. It is ours to decide whether something is still worth fighting for. It is up to us whether we will fight against the odds that we perceive. It is up to us whether we are still willing to go through hell without any assurance of reaching heaven.

But love is a risk. Love is not just a mere emotion. It is also a decision. It is a decision that we shouldn’t leave for others to answer for us because no matter what they say, our heart won’t listen; not at all. Our heart has this single vision that can only be changed by us. Sometimes, not even our very selves can change how we feel.

The best thing to do is to “go with the flow”. That is, the flow within ourselves. We have to let ourselves embrace our feelings because the more we deny or hold back, the more the sensation grows stronger. We have to let our hearts realize on their own that the feelings could be let go.

We could never truly control how we feel. But the decision on what to do, with those feelings traveling through our bodies, is ours to make.

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