Dating Games

You know you’re in a dating game when you want to call but don’t want to call because you may appear too clingy. You want to send him or her a text message but you want to look laid back like you’re not really thinking about them. You want to make sure they chase you so basically you don’t do anything.

Play it too good and too relaxed you will be sure to lose his or her attention. True story. Went on a few dates with someone and then it went bad. He had made plans with me and ‘forgotten’ he had made plans with me or so he said. After I said what I wanted to say this is what I noticed. When I ended things right there he started to pursue me actively by calling and messaging me to let me he was actually interested in me. The thing was that I had lost interest after he had ‘forgotten’ to confirm plans with me because well he had forgotten. Who wants to hear that?! I don’t truly believe he forgot and because I called him on his game he dropped the game and showed his interest. Unfortunately it was too late. The conclusion of the story is if you’re truly interested in someone and want to spend time with them bypass the games and be genuine from the beginning.

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