Choosing to Avoid Confrontations

Are you Read to Face Problems?

A person can never avoid having to deal with confrontations. It could be with acclaimed old friends or perhaps even past love interests. Whatever the case may be, some people just choose to avoid them by not showing themselves and relegating themselves to the background to avoid arguments and potential fights that can ensue.

As far as love interests are concerned, it is not surprising to be tagged as bitter. This really depends on the gravity of how serious and devastating experience you had during the courtship stages. While many can just forgive and forget, deep inside there are people who take it personally and put them into shambles.

For friends, there are times where success can really change a person. Even if you were long time friends since childhood, you choose to protect yourself from potential shame like being identified with someone who has made a choice for his own.

They cannot be blamed but it is also a measure of how valuable friendship really is. If stature and wealth is all important to them, all you can do is wish them the best. But if they fall, they will fall hard for there is nothing more valuable than a friendship regardless of their life choices. Good karma and bad karma still exist in the world ya know.