Right One or Right Now?

Have you ever encountered an experience where you were unsure whether the person you are with is the right one? You ask yourself this because of the many possible reasons why you are unfit for each other? Or have you asked yourself whether the person you are seeing is not just another one of those temporary partners?

The reason for this pondering is because there are two types of partners we may have. First is the right one for us. This means that this person we have met may be the perfect one for us but it doesn’t necessarily mean that this person is the one made for us at the moment. Second is the right now type of partner in our life. This means that this person may not be the perfect guy for us but he (or she) is there for us and fits our lifestyle at that point in time.

The right one type for us is usually the one more difficult to reach. There are so many obstacles we face because in everything in life, the best things are hardest to get. On the other hand, the right now type for us is usually the one available and very reachable. This is usually what people fall for because it is way easier and way more “convenient” for most.

I am not saying that the two types are very distinct from each other. There are times when these two types may intersect. That is what we should be looking for. We have to be patient in our lives so that our romantic life will be perfect. We have to learn to wait so that in the end, we will be with the RIGHT ONE and the RIGHT NOW. That will be the most beautiful type of relationship.

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