As Beautiful as Thee

Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. It also comes in different personalities. But one thing about you that amazes me is your flair, your grace each time you walk inside the room. Such impact is something to behold. You are truly in a class of your own.

Your beauty is like no other and is a unique splendor. Many men are aching to meet you, converse and befriend you. While some are mainly after your physique, I sometimes wonder if your inner soul is equally beautiful as we have seen most women who only bear the outer beauty only to hide something devious inside.

In this world, outer beauty should not be the only one to main point of interest. Many would be surprised at how discovering the inner traits can instantaneously the overall personality of a supposedly beautiful lass.

But today, it is all about being logical and loving the inner personality that most fail to realize. Outer beauty is a bonus but it is really what is inside that counts. You may be blinded by beauty mainly for the sake of being praised.

However, what value are praises if the real person that resides inside is nothing more than a hideous creature that is aiming to degrade and eat your sanity inside?

Be wise for true beauty is really found inside. Do not be deceived by the decors of physical attraction. It may lead to your eventual demise.

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People Longing for Pure Romance

If you count the people longing for pure romance without any strings attached, count me in. I have had my share of success and failure in relationships and I can only think of two instances where I really fell in love and was romantically linked.

Normally, romance is when two people complement each other, could care less of what others would say and are paired together like they were made in heaven. Of course, many would envy and try to break it up for own personal reasons but pure romance is surely hard to crack.

I have made my own journeys and trials with a couple of women, professional and supposedly mature. But as it seems, being in the professional stages of your life seems to draw you towards taking on love as a secondary necessity, preferring to focus and of course to choose the person you want to be linked with.

There are girls like that. Aiming for the top and of course choosing the best looking and best dressed men. But answer me this. Have you seen any couple who is perfectly molded and almost the heartthrob of a group last long? Take a look at the news and the next time there may be reunions. You may be surprised that they are already divorced or separated.

Pure romance is found in people who could care less of physical attraction. It is all about being together and playing beautiful music together until you reach the elder ages of your life.

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Holding Back Tears Symbolizes Feebleness

There is no person in this world that would not know how to shed a tear. Many may be good at hiding it but if there is something that knows not to shed a tear then that would be a robot programmed to feel.

In relationships, we would normally not want to be seen crying. There is nothing wrong with crying. In fact it is better especially when you encounter the usual issues such as rejection or break-ups. Tears do not always have to be physically seen to be understood. Tears can go as far as occurring inside without being noticed as well.

Just imagine you getting rattled and shaken up from being turned down. Being human, it is normal to feel down and neglected. But to get rid of that feeling, you would be glad to note that once you are able to blurt out or release that hurt, you can feel a lot better. It may not be immediate but at least it keeps you from hating yourself or the world for that matter.

Being turned down or losing your chance at someone is part of living. We all hate rejection and downsides. But life is not about happy endings all the time. We just have to get up and go on with life no matter how hard it would be. These occurrences only make us stronger. That is perhaps the best positive thing we can get from it and we are bound to mature over time.

Give it some days and you may even find yourself laughing at it. The pain will remain but life and existence needs to be managed for better personal growth and maturity in the mysteries of love and relationships.

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A Petal That Keeps You Away from a Group

Most of us have our own run-ins as far as falling in love with someone in a group. Unfortunately, if things do not go well, there will be some sort of sour-graping or bitterness on your end, a development that cannot really be avoided. You try to remain as friends but overall, rejection is simply something more like a bitter pill to swallow.

So what does a person do? Continue to join a group and act as if nothing happened? I envy people who are like this. For true people, emotional warfare is something pretty hard to handle and no matter how hard you try, you cannot help but avoid that person especially if you are both in one group for some time.

On a man’s point of view, you would be looking at the best option. The normal way is to try to limit or perhaps avoid going to social functions and parties, thinking less of what others may think. You can make up all the excuses in the world but only your closest friends can understand your real reason.

You are not a villain for avoiding joining a group. We are all mature people and we all make our choices. If you feel it is not worth the time to be present then by all means do something else or perhaps stay at home and do something where it will be more worth your while.

You don’t have to disclose anything at all. Love hurts if it is only felt by one. Love cannot be forced on anyone. These are reason as to perhaps why some people would rather be alone than risk living with a broken heart.

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Life Goes On After Relationship Break-Ups

After getting out of a relationship, we sometimes wonder whether it’s time to move on or if we should wait and see if there is still hope in rekindling the flame of our most recent breakup. Some may say that rekindling the flame will still be possible because of the love that existed. But what do you do when after trying, things still don’t work out? Do you allow yourself to wait forever?

Each and every one of us should know that there are times when we have to leave our past relationships. We have to learn to move on. Of course, there is an argument that might say that true love never dies. Remember, our life isn’t just about love for one person. It’s about giving love to others as well; like family members and friends. When we dwell too much on a relationship that has no more hope in reviving, we are hindering ourselves from growth. We are boxing ourselves into only one way of thinking; that is, true love never dies no matter what.

I’ve mentioned this many times in previous articles, love is something worth fighting for and worth waiting on. But there will come a time when we have to know when it’s time to move on. We have to find out for ourselves that the love we are waiting on may be something worth putting in the past.

Love is so special. There are so much people whom we can love and can love us back. Our love for a previous partner surely, will be hard to extinguish. But one thing we should be aware of is that it could be transformed. It could be transformed into a love for a friend.

Know when to move on. There is more to life than just intimate relationships.

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