Impulsive Emotional Disorders to Live With
There are times when you let emotions get the best of you. This is common for people who have a hard time managing professional from personal problems. But the thing is you may regret decisions in the end and thinking what if you did otherwise.
Teenagers who have had relationships often believe that their girlfriend at that time would be their wife already. But remember, you have a lot of time left and meeting new people can change all that at an instant. Also, one quarrel can split you up and the gap (if ever you decide to reconcile) is all the time needed for another person to come in and change your life completely.
Once that happens, there is no turning back. Much as you want to go back, it maybe difficult to since it would be unfair and unethical. Worst, issues such as accidental pregnancy or untimely exchange of wedding vows would put a definite wall towards ever trying to go back to your old sweetheart.
When you grow older, you will still get to talk to that person. Both of you have own families but you cannot help but reminisce of what might have been. At this point, all you can do is wish that at some point, there may be a time for you to experience how it would be to live together. This may be limited due to life span but overall, it is being in each other’s arms again that is important. It may be short but can also be for eternity from this world and perhaps onto the next life.
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I believe that humans have the capacity to love and be with any other individual. The feelings of closeness and love that you have within a relationship, I believe, can be felt with any other person around you.
We have to be aware of how we can grow with the person we are with. Will they help us make healthy choices? Will they reinforce healthy habits? Because if not, then why would you be with them?
I truly believe that the reason why there are so many divorces is because people who have not been in a lot of relationships (such as teenagers) falsely believe that nobody could ever love them the way that they are being loved by their mate, and vice versa. The connection they feel is amazing, but they do not take into account the ways that people can grow apart if they do not proactively communicate with one another.
The above post leads me to believe that this man is unsatisfied in the current relationship he is in and believes that if only he is with this girl from the past, everything will be alright. However, he had broken up with that girl from the past for a reason. Whatever that reason was, it was a big enough issue to keep you from being with that person in your current life.
Too many people believe in soul mates, and this is one of the main reasons why I believe there are so many unhappy relationships filled with cheating and lies.
Life is a personal journey. Yes, relationships enable us to experience things together in order to grow, but you alone experience your own happiness, struggles, and enlightenment.
If you find a male/female that is walking on the same path as you, by all means walk with them. Just remember to openly communicate. Communication is the key to the longevity of relationships.
Hello Stephanie:
Thank you for the very wonderful insights. Your analysis is true. Life just seems to be full of things to consider and the proper satisfaction leaves a lot to be said. But as you said, it would be best to walk through the roads of life with someone who will walk with you. Cherish what you have and by all means, live life the way it was made to be for you.
I hope to see more of your insights, they are very enlightening and inspiring!