The Secrets Behind the Garden Greenhouse

Juliana Gardener 1800 Greenhouse I met this wonderful couple 3 years ago. They’ve been together for about 30 years and I can still feel their enthusiasm and so much love for each other. I started a conversation with them that made me realized a lot of things. They said that love is not like a flower that blooms and then die after some time. Love is not a feeling, it’s a lifetime commitment.

They told me that near their place there was a Garden greenhouse and you can cultivate tons of different flowers, plants and vegetables. The couple told me that it’s important that you have a greenhouse inside your heart where you will cultivate the love that God has given you for your partner. At first I was thinking of a real greenhouse but I know they’re saying it in a metaphorical way.

The couple said that love motivates them to be a better person. But the process of making their love stronger took time. Communication is important because you get to know the thoughts of each other. Having a heart to heart daily conversation built their trust, respect and love. But the most important thing that I’ve learned during our chat is that God was the center of their love for each other. They’ve learned to accept each others flaw. They said that God motivates them to love each other even if there are days with full of disagreements. It taught them how to be strong even if there are storms in life that they think they can’t handle.

Suddenly they stopped and just stared at me. I was so conscious that time. Then the woman started talking. She told me that I shouldn’t rely on what I feel towards the person because feelings may deceive me. She said, “You pray, because God knows what’s best for you”. Suddenly everything made sense. They mentioned that I am not supposed to have like a dozen of Garden greenhouses in my heart because I should be committed with one person only and not tons of guys. God prepared my partner in life long before I was born in this world. So it’ll do me no harm if I stop and pray and seek His will for my life.

Our conversation ended and I’ve never been this enthusiastic about love. Since then, my perspective in life changed. I’ve been seeking God not just about love but even with my decisions in life. Now, I’m enjoying my relationship with my future husband and I really couldn’t ask for more. He was the missing puzzle that I needed to complete my life. God gave me a perfect match and I know without second thoughts that he’s the one.

The following week I received an email from the couple, they we’re asking me how I am doing and other stuff. But what caught my attention was the last part of their message “Love God more than him and blessings will overflow in your relationship” It’s true because the more I love God the more love I can give my partner. She also mentioned that inside my Garden greenhouse I have to take out all dead leaves and faded blooms. These things represent all the unnecessary fights that may ruin our relationship. Learn to forgive and forget but It’s this is only possible if you’re guided by the Lord.